Her First Pointe Shoes
There are milestones in life you never forget—your first bike ride, the first time you drove a car, your first heartbreak. And if you’re a ballet dancer, there’s one moment that lives in a special place forever: the day you get your first pair of pointe shoes.
It’s more than a new pair of shoes. It’s a symbol. A silent recognition of all the sweat, tears, and quiet discipline poured into pliés and tendus over countless classes. It’s a statement from a teacher—you’re ready.
For many dancers, the moment carries the weight of years. A teacher calls you over after class, eyes sparkling, and simply says, “Bring your parents next week. It’s time.”
💖 Why This Moment Matters
That first fitting isn’t just a shopping trip—it’s a celebration of progress, perseverance, and potential. It marks the beginning of a new chapter in a dancer’s journey, one that demands greater strength, focus, and maturity.
👣 What Parents Should Know About the First Pointe Shoe Experience
If your dancer is approaching this milestone, here’s how you can prepare:
1. Wait for the Teacher’s Go-Ahead
Pointe work isn’t just about age—it’s about bone development, ankle strength, core control, and years of proper training. Always wait until your dancer’s instructor confirms she is ready. Most dancers begin pointe between ages 11–13 after several years of consistent ballet.
2. Schedule a Professional Fitting
Pointe shoes must be expertly fitted—this isn’t something to buy online or guess sizing. We recommend visiting a trusted dancewear store with trained fitters. Bring your dancer’s teacher if they offer to come, or take photos/videos of the fitting to share for approval.
3. Allow Time (and Patience)
The fitting can take up to an hour. Your dancer will likely try several styles and brands. Each foot is different, and the “right” shoe isn’t always the one that looks best—it’s the one that supports best.
4. Prepare for Accessories
In addition to shoes, your dancer will need:
Toe pads or lambs wool
Sewing kit or pre-sewn shoes
Elastic and ribbons
A mesh bag for airing out shoes
5. Celebrate the Moment
This is a big deal! Take a picture. Let your dancer show off her new shoes at home (just not on wood floors!). Encourage her to journal about it or add a note to her dance scrapbook.
🩰 What to Expect Next
Pointe class will start slowly, often at the barre. Progression is careful and intentional. Dancers won’t be performing in full pointe routines right away—and that’s okay. Trust the process.
💬 From Our Studio to You
We cherish this milestone as much as you do. If your dancer is approaching pointe readiness, feel free to reach out to us for recommended fitters, teacher guidance, and sewing tips. We’re here to support every step—literally.
Your dancer will never forget her first pair of pointe shoes. And neither will you.